Raamatukogu

Vägivallatu suhtlemine. Elu keel.

Nebadon, 2005

See on ääretult praktiline raamat, mis toetab iseenesest ja teistest inimestest teadlikumaks saamist, aitab väljendada iseennast ausalt, ilma kriitika ja hukkamõistuta ning kuulata teisi süvatasandil, sõnade tagant. Vägivallatu suhtlemine ei ole pelgalt suhtlemismudel - see on sügav elufilosoofia ja elamise viis!

Loe I peatükki raamatust

Don`t Be Nice, Be Real: Balancing Passion for Self With Compassion for Others

Authors Publishing Cooperative, 2002

This book teaches you the mechanics and spirit of Nonviolent Compassionate Communication to cure "Niceitis." It shows how being Mr. or Mrs. Nice Guy or Gal is a form of violence to yourself and others, and an escape from a fully lived life. It takes you on a journey from being either a depressed doormat, or an aggressive bully, to an effective, enlightened assertion of yourself. It provides principles and tools for self-responsible, non-judgmental, clear and conscious harmony.

Going to Pieces Without Falling Apart. A Buddhist Perspective on WHoleness. Lessons from Meditation and Psychotherapy

Broadway Books, 1999

Love Is Letting Go of Fear

Celestial Arts, 2004

To help us in this difficult journey from fear to love, Dr. Jampolsky presents tools in the form of 12 daily, progressive lessons for personal transformation. These crucial lessons work through the concepts of giving, forgiveness, cause and effect, perspective, reactive behavior, victimhood, judgement, living in the present, releasing the past, visualization, freedom to choose, and taking responsibility. In the 25 years since it was first published, "Love Is Letting Go of Fear" continues to change lives with its frank, thought-provoking, and powerful response to overcoming life's greatest challenges.

No Contest. The Case Against Competition. Why We Lose in Our Race to Win.

Houghton Mifflin, 1986

Contrary to the myths with which we have been raised, Kohn shows that competition is not an inevitable part of human nature. It does not motivate us to do our best (in fact, our workplacees and schools are introuble because they value competitiveness instead of excellence). Rather than building character, competition sabotages self-esteem and ruins relationships. It even warps recreation by turning the palying field into a battlefiled. Because any win/lose arrangement is understandable, we will have to restructure our institutions for the benefit of ourselves, our children, and our society.

Punished by Rewards: The Trouble With Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A`s, Praise, and Other Bribes

Houghton Mifflin, 1999

The basic strategy we use for raising children, teaching students, and managing workers can be summarized in six words: Do this and you`ll get that. We dangle goodies (from candy bars to sales commissions) in front of people in much the same way we train the family pet. Drawing on a wealth of psychological research, Alfie Kohn points the way to a more successful strategy based on working with people instead of doing things to them. Kirkus Reviews called Punished By Rewards "a clear, convincing demonstration of the shortcoming of pop-behaviorism, written with style, humor, and authority," and Thomas Gordon, the founder of Parent Effectiveness Training, said, "Every parent, teacher, and manager should read this book - and hurry."

Expressing and Receiving Anger Compassionately
MC (kassett)

The Center of NVC, 1998

Dr. Marshall Rosenberg`s summary of how to fully express and receive anger using NVC principles.

Speaking Peace. Connecting with others through Nonviolent Communication
CD

Words are Windows or They are Walls. A Presentation of Nonviolent Communication by M. Rosenberg
VHS, 145 min

Create Your Life - Productions, 1995

Words are windows or They are Walls was recorded at a presentation in Copenhagen, where Marshall Rosenberg introduces Nonviolent Communication with humor and clarity. He illustrates the model with everydaysituations presented by the audience.

Life Enriching Education

http://nonviolentcommunication.com/books/emotional-intelligence.htm

The Open and Closed Mind. Investigations Into the Nature of Belief Systems and Personality Systems.

Basic Books, 1960

Based on intensive studies conducted by Milton Rokeach and his colleagues over a period of nearly nine years, The Open and Closed Mind probes deeply into the nature of prejudice and dogmatic thinking. In so doing, this incisive volume sheds ligth on the process by which man constructs and organizes his systems of belief and on the relation between an individual`s patterns of belief and his underlying personality structure.

The Myth of Psychotherapy: Mental Healing as Religion, Rhetoric, and Repression

Syracuse University Press, 1988

Claiming that morality has been replaced with medical and therapeutic rhetoric, Szasz moves to demythologize psychotherapy, and he does so in a most provocative manner.

A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of a Course in Miracles

Harpercollins, 1996

Back by popular demand - and newly updated by the author - the mega-bestselling spiritual guide in which Marianne Williamson shares her reflections on A Course in Miracles and her insights on the application of love in the search for inner peace.Williamson reveals how we each can become a miracle worker by accepting God and by the expression of love in our daily lives. Whether psychic pain is in the area of relationships, career, or health, she shows us how love is a potent force, the key to inner peace, and how by practicing love we can make our own lives more fulfilling while creating a more peaceful and loving world for our children.

The Powers That Be: Theology for a New Millennium

Doubleday Galilee, 1999

In "The Powers That Be", Walter Wink helps us reformulate our ancient concepts - such as God and Satan, angels and demons, principalities and powers - in light of our modern experience. Based on his understanding of the Bible, Wink creates a whole new way of viewing the world, and offers us a language for talking about and to God. This popularized abridgment of Naming the Powers, Unmasking the Powers, and Engaging the Powers radically reorients our perspective on life by creating new lenses through which we see reality. Equipped with this fresh outlook, we can embark on a new relationship with God and our world that will serve us well into the next millennium.

Connecting agross Differences: A Guide to Compassionate, Nonviolent Communication

Hungry Duck Press 2005

"Connecting agross Differences addresses the real life concerns of young adults with candor, clarity and compassion. THe autors use a variety of engaging dialogues, exercises, examples, and contemporary ads and cartoons to show how the powerful process of Nonviolent Communication can enrich personal relationships as well as contribute to fa-reaching social change. It is engaging reading for people of all ages who long more connection and understanding in the world."